Ministry to Kids with Special Needs

When I meet a second grader, I always joke, “I spent two of the happiest years of my life in the second grade.” While most chuckle at the joke—I did repeat second grade. I was a child with a special need that wasn’t discovered until second grade. Being deaf in one ear, I was often scolded for not paying attention, and even cheating when I was looking at a friend’s paper to see what we were supposed to do. Once my handicap was discovered, life improved dramatically! Once my needs were addressed, I went from feeling unloved and picked on to accepted and cared for. The difference in my self-esteem was profound. 

You have children with special needs in your midst. Some  are obvious. But there are many that have hidden or undiscovered needs. Parents may be unaware or unwilling to address special needs. So how can you make sure that every child in your ministry feels welcome, loved, and understood?

Create a Loving Environment. Make sure every child is noticed, welcomed, and addressed individually. Don’t be afraid to ask children if they need help or if some minor change would make class time easier for them.

Cultivate a Safe Environment. Don’t expect every child to sit still and be completely engaged every minute of your program. We aren’t ministering to miniature adults, but to little people who are still developing into who God made them. Often what appears to be bad behavior is simply a child trying to cope with a difficult situation. Be gentle and seek to help—not just correct.

Communicate with Parents. We minister to parents, too! We work with a child for an hour or two, but parents face the same challenges all week long. Don’t just report bad behavior. Instead, ask how you can help their child succeed. Express love for their child and how happy you are that they are in your ministry.

Our goal isn’t to have a completely controlled classroom—it is to minister to each and every child according to their needs. And that includes every child!

 

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